Safety Tips & Guidelines

Your safety is our priority. Follow these guidelines for a secure experience.

Stay Safe, Stay Smart

Meeting new people is exciting, but it's important to keep a few things in mind to protect yourself both online and offline.

Online Safety

Protect Your Personal Information

  • Never share your full name, address, phone number, or workplace in your initial messages
  • Don't include personal information in your photos (license plates, house numbers, etc.)
  • Use the platform's messaging system until you feel comfortable sharing contact details
  • Be cautious about what you share on social media that's linked to your profile

Watch for Red Flags

  • Someone asking for money or financial assistance
  • Profiles with very few photos or generic stock images
  • People who refuse to video chat or meet in person
  • Overly aggressive or inappropriate messages
  • Requests to move conversations off the platform immediately

Report Suspicious Behavior

  • Use the report function if someone makes you uncomfortable
  • Block users who send inappropriate content
  • Contact our support team if you suspect fraudulent activity

Meeting in Person

Plan Your First Date Safely

  • Meet in a public place with lots of people around
  • Choose a familiar location where you feel comfortable
  • Avoid meeting at your home or your date's home
  • Plan your own transportation to and from the date
  • Keep the first meeting short (coffee or lunch)

Tell Someone Where You're Going

  • Share your plans with a trusted friend or family member
  • Send them the location and time of your date
  • Share your date's profile information with someone
  • Check in with them during or after the date
  • Consider using location-sharing apps

Stay Alert During the Date

  • Don't leave your drink unattended
  • Keep your phone charged and with you at all times
  • Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, leave
  • Don't feel pressured to drink alcohol if you don't want to
  • Have an exit plan if you need to leave quickly

Relationship Safety

Take Your Time

  • Don't rush into a relationship or intimacy
  • Get to know someone gradually before making commitments
  • It's okay to say no at any time
  • Respect your own boundaries and expect others to respect them

Financial Safety

  • Never send money to someone you haven't met in person
  • Be wary of sob stories or emergency requests for money
  • Don't share financial information or account details
  • Scammers often create elaborate stories to gain your trust

Account Security

Secure Your Account

  • Use a strong, unique password
  • Never share your login credentials with anyone
  • Log out when using shared devices
  • Review your privacy settings regularly
  • Be cautious of phishing emails claiming to be from us

In Case of Emergency

If you ever feel you're in immediate danger, contact local emergency services right away.

Report to Support or

Call Emergency Services: 911